{"id":972,"date":"2013-04-24T16:00:21","date_gmt":"2013-04-24T16:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/?p=972"},"modified":"2020-04-15T12:54:05","modified_gmt":"2020-04-15T12:54:05","slug":"ask-the-expert-questions-asked-by-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/ask-the-expert-questions-asked-by-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask The Expert &#8211; Questions Asked By You!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">It&#8217;s that time of the month again where we give you, our members a chance to ask the awkward questions you want the answers to.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Last month we brought you photo tips and advice and prompted you to send us questions about confidence and how to boost it. We were inundated with some really great questions, but unfortunately we can only answer a few per email, meaning we picked the most common questions and brought you what we thought were the best answers. <span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Next month&#8217;s topic is Dates, including the <\/span><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts, what to say, what not to say, etc&#8230;<\/span><\/b><\/strong><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"> so if you&#8217;ve got any questions about dates, be it your first, second or maybe even third date, we&#8217;re here to offer our advice.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/7b2845851b6c520de7b7092dacde09c4_original.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-973\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/7b2845851b6c520de7b7092dacde09c4_original.jpg\" alt=\"7b2845851b6c520de7b7092dacde09c4_original\" width=\"221\" height=\"141\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Remember to send your questions to <a title=\"mailto:asktheexpert@expertdating.co.uk?subject=Ask%20The%20Expert&lt;br \/&gt;&lt;br \/&gt; Ask the Experts\" href=\"mailto:asktheexpert@expertdating.co.uk?subject=Ask%20The%20Expert\"><span style=\"color: #1e00ff;\" title=\"mailto:asktheexpert@expertdating.co.uk?subject=Ask%20The%20Expert\">asktheexpert@expertdating.co.uk<\/span><\/a> and we&#8217;ll do our best to answer them in next month&#8217;s edition.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: medium;\">HOW DO YOU ASK SOMEONE OUT ON A DATE?<\/span><\/b><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Asking someone out on a date is always daunting, and unless there is a clear spark there, is very rarely easy. But there are a couple of <\/span><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">simple things<\/span><\/b><\/strong><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"> to remember which should make it a little easier.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/4ff98e43ccee0c2a5945fd6bbc795840_original.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-974\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/4ff98e43ccee0c2a5945fd6bbc795840_original.jpg\" alt=\"4ff98e43ccee0c2a5945fd6bbc795840_original\" width=\"227\" height=\"607\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/4ff98e43ccee0c2a5945fd6bbc795840_original.jpg 227w, https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/4ff98e43ccee0c2a5945fd6bbc795840_original-112x300.jpg 112w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 227px) 100vw, 227px\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">1. Prepare yourself for rejection:<\/span><\/b><\/strong><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"> No one likes to be told no, but it&#8217;s a fact of life and something we have to take in our stride and accept we aren&#8217;t going to get what we want. This is no more relevant than when asking someone out on a date. By preparing yourself for the worst, you are already getting over the biggest hurdle and in return, getting over your worries which bring on a lack of confidence and affect performance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">2. Avoid straight forward questions:<\/span><\/b><\/strong><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"> Unless you&#8217;re 100% sure the answer is going to be &#8216;Yes&#8217; avoid asking outright &#8220;will you go out with me&#8221; as this often leads to a short and simple &#8220;No!&#8221;, knocking your confidence and leaving you with nothing else to come back with. Try making it less formal whilst leaving options. <\/span><em><b><i><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">&#8220;Hey, I&#8217;d really like to get together sometime and do something with you&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/b><\/em><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">. Not only does this open a conversation of the whats, wheres and whens, but it also reduces the possibilities for the other party to simply knock you back.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">3. Know when to give up:<\/span><\/b><\/strong><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"> It should be pretty clear from the outset as to whether the other party is interested in a date or not. If after following the steps above, and you&#8217;ve suggested a couple of dates and you&#8217;re still getting short, one-word answers of &#8220;Not Free&#8221;, &#8220;I&#8217;m busy that day&#8221; and &#8220;sorry, I can&#8217;t make it&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">It&#8217;s now time to cut your losses and give up as each rejection is just going to knock your confidence more and more, making it even harder for the next time as well as making you look more and more desperate. Know when to give up and move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Why not <a title=\"http:\/\/click.wldemail.com\/r\/link\/8a77II6abc0c753II1e416II7bad2II6abc0ec5dII4\/uk.youvepulled.com%3F__ali_h%3DjIu_uauubbsEBUdMQRjvhwydypY%3D%26__ali_m%3D5300342%26__ali_s%3D1366794846%26member%3D5300342%26utm_campaign%3D9139-uk-general-ask-the-expert-edition-2-april-confidence%26utm_medium%3Dnewsletter%26utm_source%3Dwldemail&lt;br \/&gt;&lt;br \/&gt; You've Pulled\" href=\"http:\/\/click.wldemail.com\/r\/link\/8a77II6abc0c753II1e416II7bad2II6abc0ec5dII4\/uk.youvepulled.com%3F__ali_h%3DjIu_uauubbsEBUdMQRjvhwydypY%3D%26__ali_m%3D5300342%26__ali_s%3D1366794846%26member%3D5300342%26utm_campaign%3D9139-uk-general-ask-the-expert-edition-2-april-confidence%26utm_medium%3Dnewsletter%26utm_source%3Dwldemail\"><span style=\"color: #1e00ff;\" title=\"http:\/\/click.wldemail.com\/r\/link\/8a77II6abc0c753II1e416II7bad2II6abc0ec5dII4\/uk.youvepulled.com%3F__ali_h%3DjIu_uauubbsEBUdMQRjvhwydypY%3D%26__ali_m%3D5300342%26__ali_s%3D1366794846%26member%3D5300342%26utm_campaign%3D9139-uk-general-ask-the-expert-edition-2-april-confidence%26utm_medium%3Dnewsletter%26utm_source%3Dwldemail\">log in now<\/span><\/a>, follow these short and simple steps and find someone to <\/span><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">take out on a date now.<\/span><\/b><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: medium;\">HOW TO ASK IF SEX IS IMPORTANT?<\/span><\/b><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">To some people sex is a big part of an intimate relationship whereas to others, it&#8217;s not important in the slightest. Some people find this a hard subject to raise due to sex being looked upon as a taboo matter. However, the best way to approach this is to be <strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial;\">straight forward and honest.<\/span><\/b><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>There isn&#8217;t an easy way to bring it up, nor is it a good idea to speak in code. Be <strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial;\">open<\/span><\/b><\/strong>, be <strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial;\">honest<\/span><\/b><\/strong> and <strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial;\">ask<\/span><\/b><\/strong>. Afterall, if the person is right for you, they will understand and the conversation will flow, if it doesn&#8217;t then maybe you&#8217;ve not found your perfect match.<\/p>\n<p><strong><b><span style=\"font-family: Times New Roman; font-size: medium;\">WHAT IS AN ACCEPTABLE AGE GAP?<\/span><\/b><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Permitting both parties are within the legal age of consent, there is <strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial;\">no rule on age difference<\/span><\/b><\/strong>, it is simply down to the people involved and whether or not you feel comfortable with the difference in age between the two of you. No matter how comfortable you feel together in the quiet of the home, if you feel uncomfortable outside in public with the other person because of the age difference, then it&#8217;s not right for you.<br \/>\nIf you both share common interests, and there is a spark there, then there is nothing wrong with an age gap.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Now you have the answers, it&#8217;s <\/span><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">time to act on them<\/span><\/b><\/strong><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">. And don&#8217;t forget, there&#8217;s nothing to it, it&#8217;s simply a case of being confident&#8230; try it &#8211; it could be the key to your new online dating success.<\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">Next month we&#8217;re looking at dates<\/span><\/b><\/strong><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"> where we&#8217;ll cover where to go, what not to do, things to wear, and overall coaching tips.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><b><span style=\"color: #1e00ff; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\">So email your questions to <a title=\"mailto:asktheexpert@expertdating.co.uk?subject=Ask%20The%20Expert&lt;br \/&gt;&lt;br \/&gt; Ask the Experts\" href=\"mailto:asktheexpert@expertdating.co.uk?subject=Ask%20The%20Expert\"><span style=\"color: #1e00ff;\" title=\"mailto:asktheexpert@expertdating.co.uk?subject=Ask%20The%20Expert\">asktheexpert@expertdating.co.uk<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/b><\/strong><span style=\"color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: small;\"> and we&#8217;ll publish the best ones, along with answers from our very own experts in next month&#8217;s email.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/483fa840ae7d590e42b9b4b68898ef51_original.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-975\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/483fa840ae7d590e42b9b4b68898ef51_original.jpg\" alt=\"483fa840ae7d590e42b9b4b68898ef51_original\" width=\"650\" height=\"114\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/483fa840ae7d590e42b9b4b68898ef51_original.jpg 650w, https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/483fa840ae7d590e42b9b4b68898ef51_original-300x52.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/483fa840ae7d590e42b9b4b68898ef51_original-500x87.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s that time of the month again where we give you, our members a chance to ask the awkward questions you want the answers to. 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