{"id":689,"date":"2012-06-14T10:00:19","date_gmt":"2012-06-14T10:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/?p=689"},"modified":"2020-10-14T11:45:51","modified_gmt":"2020-10-14T11:45:51","slug":"need-help-starting-a-conversation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/need-help-starting-a-conversation\/","title":{"rendered":"Need help starting a conversation?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-205\" title=\"couple\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/02\/couple.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"273\" height=\"233\" \/>So you\u2019ve finally plucked up the courage to take your cyber romance offline and see if you can stand the test of real chemistry. Meeting someone for the first time can seem daunting, but it needn\u2019t be. Read on to find out our top conversation starters which are guaranteed to keep the conversation flowing!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Breaking the ice<\/strong> \u2013Talk about your day, talk about the weather, talk about your journey to meet your date. Although these topics may seem rather mundane they are perfect for breaking the ice. They also give you a great opportunity to suss out those all-important first impressions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Current Affairs &#8211; <\/strong>What\u2019s going on in the news? Are there any TV programmes that you are particularly into? Or what about a bit of celebrity gossip? Everyone has their own opinions on current affairs, popular culture and TV shows so it\u2019s a great starting point and a great stepping stone to lead conversation elsewhere.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Family \u2013 <\/strong>Talking about each other\u2019s families is a fairly safe and easy topic. It invites your date into your world and allows you to open up a little more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Work \u2013<\/strong>What you do, how you got into it, the good the bad. For most people work is a big part of their life so there should be plenty to talk about. Be warned though, if they hate their job you may need to steer the conversation on to something else. Perhaps\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Winning Big \u2013 <\/strong>What would you do if you won the lottery? Everyone loves this question because you can really let yourself get carried away and create your dream life; a pretty good insight into one another\u2019s desires.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Films \u2013 <\/strong>A person\u2019s taste in films can say a lot about their character. It\u2019s also a great way to see if you have anything in common.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dream Dinner Party \u2013 <\/strong>Ask your date who they\u2019d invite \u2013 dead or alive \u2013 to their dream dinner party. Another great question which allows you both to get day dreamy and also gives you a good idea of the types of people you are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Phobias \u2013 <\/strong>Finding out about your date\u2019s phobias is a great way to create a bond between the two of you as it shows your vulnerable side. It can also be a great way to triggers some funny anecdotes. Plus, if one of you is scared of spiders and the other doesn\u2019t mind catching them, well then you could be a match made in heaven!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Desert Island \u2013 <\/strong>Another open ended question and one that can easily lead you onto other conversations is \u2018what three items would you take to a desert island\u2019. It\u2019s a fun way to find out what is important to your date.<\/p>\n<p><strong>People Watch <\/strong>\u2013 People watching is great fun and it gives you plenty to talk about. Make up stories about the other people for example, why they might be there or what their story is. 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