{"id":2110,"date":"2022-11-04T14:21:33","date_gmt":"2022-11-04T14:21:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/?p=2110"},"modified":"2022-11-04T14:21:33","modified_gmt":"2022-11-04T14:21:33","slug":"is-it-love-or-lust","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/blog\/is-it-love-or-lust\/","title":{"rendered":"Is It Love Or Lust?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Is it love or lust? Met someone new and want to know? Then read this blog and find out.\" width=\"580\" height=\"326\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/C0axQOVtMdo?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>When you\u2019re having fun chatting to friendly and flirty new friends, on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youvepulled.com\/\">mobile dating<\/a> site You\u2019vePulled, it\u2019s super easy to get caught up in the excitement of making instant connections.<br \/>\nOnce you \u2018click\u2019 with someone you fancy you may be surprised by how quickly your interactions progress online. Sending a cheeky wink, engaging in flirtatious banter and reciprocal personal emails, and making first date plans can take no time at all!<br \/>\nWhilst you\u2019re thrilled at the prospect of hooking up with the hot guy or girl that you\u2019re into in a big way, you may not have considered what\u2019s driving the connection.<br \/>\nIs it genuine romantic feelings (that could blossom into love) that you\u2019re experiencing? Or is it lust for NSA carnal pleasure and gratification?<\/p>\n<h3>What\u2019s On Your Mind?<\/h3>\n<p>Because love and lust activate similar neural pathways in the brain, it can be difficult to discern which state you\u2019re in. For dating success, it\u2019s vital that you\u2019re honest with yourself about what you\u2019re looking for, in terms of an emotional connection, intimacy and sex.<br \/>\nIf you\u2019re chatting with new people on You\u2019vePulled to fill a void and to expand your social life, you may be quite happy to keep communication strictly platonic and online.<br \/>\nIf you\u2019re craving passion and a NSA rendezvous with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sexchatsite.co.uk\/girls-online-now.php\">sexy stranger<\/a>, dating exclusively and falling in love is probably the last thing that you plan to do.<br \/>\nHowever, if you long for companionship that grows naturally over time and you\u2019re interested in exploring the dating scene, love is likely to be your primary focus, when you\u2019re checking out the member profiles on You\u2019vePulled.<br \/>\nHaving an open-minded approach allows you to explore multiple options, and to decide what you want to do with them. If you don\u2019t want to gain a reputation for being a player, it\u2019s always best to take your time before you dive into any type of romantic or sexually charged experience with someone new. Let the other person know what you\u2019re hoping for from the connection, and where you draw the line.<\/p>\n<h3>It\u2019s Purely Lust<\/h3>\n<p>Lust is an intense attraction and a desire to get to know someone sexually. When you\u2019re exchanging flirty messages with lots of hot singles, on a safe, secure and discreet dating platform, it\u2019s easy to get carried away and to have lustful thoughts. As your hormones are on fire, you may not be thinking with your brain, and you could make hasty decisions that you later regret.<br \/>\nIf you\u2019re looking for casual connections, and plenty of steamy sex, you\u2019re probably lost in lust.<br \/>\nYou\u2019re likely to:<br \/>\n\u2022 Love bomb the object of your affection<br \/>\n\u2022 Feel intensely driven to send explicit messages<br \/>\n\u2022 Want to exchange naughty photos<br \/>\n\u2022 Dream about tearing your POI\u2019s clothes off<br \/>\n\u2022 Desire to hook up on a date that promises sexual gratification<br \/>\nFor you, it\u2019s probably unlikely that you will want the sexy fling to turn into something more.<\/p>\n<h3>It Could Be Love<\/h3>\n<p>Love is a complex emotion that can involve friendship, attraction, passion, chemistry, lust, and a whole lot more. You can fall for someone at first sight, or take forever to realise that they\u2019re the One for you.<br \/>\nYou can also love someone you&#8217;re not sexually attracted to, and be sexually compatible with someone for whom you have no love feelings. And you can be deeply head over heels or completely infatuated.<br \/>\nGenuine love is something that creeps up on you, when you least expect it. When you feel like your world has been transformed by your POI, it\u2019s probably love that you\u2019re sensing. When this happens you want to spend very moment with this person, lashing attention on them. During the attraction phase, you feel energised and can easily go without eating or sleeping. As the bond deepens, you form a loving attachment that involves affection, trust, and acceptance of each other.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s love when:<br \/>\n\u2022 Every thought you have involves your POI<br \/>\n\u2022 You want to be close to them all the time.<br \/>\n\u2022 Butterflies dance in your stomach<br \/>\n\u2022 You&#8217;re not sleeping or eating well<\/p>\n<p>Instead of trying to define the connection that you\u2019re establishing with someone that you\u2019re chatting to on You\u2019vePulled, relax and enjoy the experience. There\u2019s no rush to give what you\u2019re feeling a label, and to put it in a \u2018love\u2019 or \u2018lust\u2019 box. Allow things to unfold naturally and see what develops. You could find that the states of love and lust fluctuate before you\u2019re ready to give it all you\u2019ve got. 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