Why Talking On The Phone Helps Maintain A Healthy Relationship

Regardless of whether you’ve been together ages or you’ve just started dating, talking on the phone is a key part of maintaining a healthy relationship.

Misinterpretation is one of the main issues with communicating via messages as there is no tone of voice and you are unable to fully interpret what someone may mean purely by reading text on a screen.
Talking on the phone means you can hear the person’s mood and their tone of voice and how they’re coming across. This can help avoid any misunderstandings which may lead to disagreements and arguments.
We know how convenient it is to text each other but with the possibility of spelling mistakes and abbreviations, you may not be able to convey your thoughts as well as you would on the phone. Sometimes it’s quicker to just ring someone and explain and then you’re also going to get immediate answers rather than hanging around waiting.

Speaking on the phone regularly can strengthen your connection with each other, whether you’re in a new relationship or have been together for a long time.
Being able to hear each other’s voices is much more personal and intimate than reading words on a screen.
It also means you’re more likely to be giving them your full attention because replying to a message means you can leave your phone and walk away – which you’re not likely to do when talking on the phone.

Getting to know someone at the beginning of a relationship is easier when you have chats on the phone. You’re able to get to know someone’s personality and get a much better idea of what they’re like rather than by messages alone.

Something that can be a big issue for some people is waiting for a reply when you’re messaging someone. Some people see it as a continuous conversation and expect replies as though you’re face to face, but other people don’t and may then reply to a message but walk away from their phone so the other people is left waiting for a response. When talking on the phone this is unlikely to happen because there would be some awkward silences if someone didn’t answer a question!

Whether you’ve just started dating or have been married for years, make sure you chat to each other on the phone and keep that connection.

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6 Ways To Tell Someone Likes You

Want to know what signs to look for to tell if someone likes you? Here are our top 6 to keep an eye out for.

 

  1. Mutual eye contact.

If someone is interested in you they are much more likely to try and catch your eye and will maintain eye contact whilst talking to you.

Maintaining eye contact elevates your oxytocin levels and increases mutual attraction!

Just make sure that your eye contact doesn’t end up verging on staring as that’s rude and might scare your date!

 

  1. Finding excuses to touch you.

When someone likes you’ll they’ll quite often go out of their way to find excuses to touch you.

This might be lightly touching your arm as they talk to you or finding an excuse to hold your hand.

Another way they could touch you is by “preening”. Picking fluff off your clothing or straightening your collar or tie could be an indication that they’re interested in you.

 

  1. Inward leaning.

The way a person is sitting is an important gauge as to whether they like you. People tend to lean towards people and try to close the gap between you. For example uncrossing their arms/legs or leaning over a table or if you’re sitting next to each other, they’d be likely turned towards you to give you their full attention.

 

  1. Mirroring.

Subtle mirroring indicates attraction. If they cross their arms when you do, or uncross their legs when you do then it is very likely that there is attraction there.

People who like one another are likely to mirror each other’s body positions. It can help establish rapport and sends a subconscious signal that you’re interested.

 

  1. No barriers between you.

If they are interested in you they are likely to remove any barriers or obstacles between you. If they’re sitting opposite you they might move to sit next to you or if there is something big on the table they might move it out of the way so they can see you better.

They might move cups and things out of the way so that there is a clear path between you, or also as mentioned previously, they may uncross their arms or legs as this can be seen as a barrier, so removal of this leaves them more open towards you.

 

  1. They ask you lots of questions.

If someone is asking you a lot of questions about yourself and seems genuinely interested – then they probably are!

If you like someone you want to make time to find out more information about them so if someone is making an effort to learn about you then they are likely to have a vested interest in you.

 

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We all love a semi; give your date one with these great facts about Croatia!

With the England v Croatia semi-final game looming, we thought you might find some facts about Croatia useful!

Impress your partner by saying “I love you” in Croatian – “Volim te”. (Probably not the best idea if you’re on a first date though!).

Put a spark into the conversation by telling them Nikola Tesla was born in Croatia.

Dubrovnik was known as the “Adriatic Pearl” in the early 19th century and was a filming location for “Game of Thrones” King’s Landing and Star Wars – certainly somewhere to visit if you holiday together!

Croatians had their own alphabet from the 12th to the 20th century. The Glagolitic alphabet was preserved only by Croats. Why not write a secret note for them to decode? The pen was also invented in Croatia, originally a mechanical pencil called the “Penkala”.

If you’re thinking of buying your date some flowers, know that the national flower of Croatia is the Iris.

If your date is a fan of musicals, they’ll be impressed to know that the island of Vis is used to portray Greece in the film ‘Mamma Mia 2’.

For a romantic getaway why not take your partner to Dalmatia? Shakespeare’s comedy Twelfth Night was set there.

If you’re one for dressing smartly for your date, you can enlighten your date on the fact that the necktie was invented in Croatia.

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Score On Our Chatline With These 8 Facts About Sweden!

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Seeing as England are playing Sweden this weekend we thought we’d give you some random Swedish facts!

  • One of our most popular stores, Ikea, was founded in Sweden in 1943 by Ingvar Kamprad. Over 1,800,000 meatballs are consumed daily in all of Ikea’s 313 stores worldwide!
  • The current three-point seatbelt was invented in Sweden and launched by Volvo in the 1950s. It is claimed to have saved 1 million lives since its invention.
  • The pacemaker, ultrasound, safety match, astronomical lens, marine propeller, refrigerator, and computer mouse are just a few that were invented in Sweden or by Swedes.
  • Every year since 1901, the Nobel Prizes have been awarded in Stockholm. It is the legacy of Alfred Nobel, who invented dynamite in 1866.
  • Sweden has won a grand total of 625.5 Olympics medals. 475.5 are from the Summer Olympics (one gold medal is shared with Denmark, hence the .5), and 150 were won in the Winter Olympics.
  • Football, is the most popular sport in Sweden. Close second is ‘innebandy’, which is a sort of floor hockey that’s played indoors.
  • One of Sweden’s most famous exports is of course, ABBA. They are the fourth-best selling music act in history after Elvis Presley, the Beatles, and Michael Jackson.
  • Sweden has one of the longest life expectancies in the world. 74 years for men and 80 years for women. It also has one of the lowest birth rates.

Everyone is talking about the World Cup, why not get on our chatlines and find other football fans to ‘score’ with!

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Text Chat and Dating with You’ve Pulled

Looking for something a bit different to get chatting to local singles? Try You’ve Pulled text chat!

You’ve Pulled text chat is a fast and easy to use SMS mobile dating and chat service that you can enjoy direct on your mobile. Just text the word PULL to 89398 and we’ll send you a text asking a couple of questions to get you started. At this stage, all messages are free.

Once you’re all signed up, we will start sending you the profiles of people we think you might match with from your area. If you like the look of anyone you can just reply to that text and get chatting.

Our text chat is safe, secure and moderated, all our members are genuine users and it’s private, discreet and anonymous.

Text dating has opened up a whole new world for singles who want to try something different. So what are you waiting for? Start chatting with local singles today with You’ve Pulled!

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There are many ways to meet singles with You’ve Pulled, try one of them today!

Text Chat
You’ve Pulled brings you a great text chat service for singles in the UK. It’s a fast and easy to use SMS mobile contact, dating and chat service that you can enjoy direct on your mobile. Once you have signed up we start sending you matching profiles of people within your area. Text dating has opened up a whole new world for singles who want to contact, chat and flirt with like-minded people. In no time at all you’ll make new friends and find matches.

Just text the word PULL to 89398 – We’ll then send you a text asking your age plus the age of the people you want to chat with, along with some additional information such as your post code. At this stage all messages are free. Once you get started, there is a minimum charge of £1.50 for 5 texts sent and received. Standard network charges apply.

Phone Chat
You’ve Pulled brings you the chance to chat and meet singles from all around the UK on your phone on the UK’s largest and best chatline service. Our service runs 24 hours a day all year long and costs are from only 13p per minute plus your phone company’s access charge.
Remember if you’re calling us from your mobile to always use our shortcode as it’s just 25p per minute with NO hidden extras!

Give us a call and you’ll find hundreds of people chatting right now from all over the UK. The best thing about our service is we DO NOT USE OPERATORS so whoever you talk to you can be guaranteed that they are real and genuine – just like you. It’s the perfect place to indulge in some casual chat, phone fun, flirting and dating on the line with like-minded single girls and guys from all parts of the country.

With live 1-2-1 chat, 100% genuine callers, a cheaper credit card option, and the opportunity to record your own introduction, it’s a great way to get to know local singles.

 

Mobile Dating

Mobile dating with You’ve Pulled couldn’t be more fun. Simply join for free and start dating and meeting up with some of our lovely singles from all over the UK.

Once you’ve joined we have some great features designed to get you that all important first date – join for free on your mobile and start dating with singles near you now. There is so much to see and do on You’ve Pulled that the only way to really enjoy it is by signing up now.

Unlike other dating sites, we can’t guarantee you’ll find love but you’ll have fun trying on You’ve Pulled!

Top 5 Date Ideas In Bristol

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Looking for somewhere interesting for your first date in Bristol? Try one of our top 5 places!

Bristol Zoo
Why not take a stroll around Bristol Zoo with your date?! There’s plenty to talk about and lots to see so you won’t be short of conversation topics especially with the daily feeds and talks that take place for many different species.
If you want to make it special, then book an animal experience with your favourite animals. Options include meerkats, lemurs and penguins!
Alternatively the zoo occasionally puts on adult or comedy nights so keep your eyes peeled for those too.
Bristol Zoo Gardens, Clifton, Bristol, BS8 3HA

Bristol Museum & Art Gallery
Browse their eclectic collections of art, nature and history whilst you get to know your date – there’s plenty to see and plenty to talk about if you run out of conversation!
Spread out over three floors, there are Egyptian mummies to see, dinosaurs to learn about (including the Bristol dinosaur) and Alfred the Gorilla to meet, along with a huge array of art and natural pieces to appreciate.
With free entry, it’s the perfect place for an interesting, educational and fun date!
Queens Rd, Bristol , BS8 1RL

Glassboat Restaurant
Since first opening in the 1980s, the Glassboat has become a well-established eatery in the heart of Bristol.
With its panoramic views of the river and its selection of a wide range of classic and original dishes, you’re sure to impress your date by taking them to this romantic setting.
Pop in for a bite to eat and/or to sample some of their delicious cocktails – they’re open for breakfast, lunch and dinner so can cater to whatever takes your fancy at whatever time of day!
Welsh Back, Bristol, BS1 4SB

Clifton Suspension Bridge & Clifton Rockslide
The grade I listed Clifton Suspension Bridge has been linking Bristol to North Somerset across the Avon Gorge for almost 150 years.
There are free guided tours on Saturdays, Sundays and Bank Holidays between Easter and October, or if you prefer, just take a stroll up Clifton Down to check out the view.
At the top of Clifton Down is an open face of rock that has been used by generations as a slide down the rock face. Called “Clifton Rock Slide”, the face of the rick has become polished by all the people that have slid down it over the years.
For something a little different, why not race your date down the slide!
Bridge Road, Bristol, BS8 3PA

The Matthew
Located in Bristol Floating Harbour is The Matthew, a replica of the English ship that discovered North America in 1497.
Climb aboard and take a look around the ship and talk to the knowledgeable volunteers about its history. You can take a trip around the harbour, down the river or even out to sea!
For something a little special, why not book a Cream Tea Trip for you and your date to enjoy whilst getting to know each other!
Visits onto the boat are free but a fee applies for harbour trips, Avon Gorge trips & their other special trips and events.
Princes Wharf, Wapping Road, Bristol BS1 4RN

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Read Some Of Our Success Stories!

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Looking for your perfect match? These just go to show that it can work for you too! Good Luck!

I started talking to Trina over three months ago now. She was my only date through the website but we hit it off straight away. We haven’t been apart a day or night since and we’re now starting to set up a new home together. We first met at a pub near to where we live. After Trina read my profile we realised we just had so much in common, we can talk about everything and anything. I love her to bits.
Phil and Trina

Having tried various other sites with no success at all, it was very encouraging to start to receive genuine messages quite quickly. After three meals out with other ladies (who were very nice, but no spark), I got in touch with Sue and arranged to meet at a National Trust venue. Although due to confusion on my part we ended up in different locations, it turned out well and our relationship has continued to improve and flourish. I would recommend the website and tell people to persevere. Good luck to everyone!
Kevan and Sue

I winked at him first. I loved his photographs and I read in his profile that he liked the outdoors and being active. These qualities really appealed to me. He immediately suggested meeting for coffee. I felt easy and comfortable with him straight away and enjoyed his lively mind. We’ve had many more days out together since. We spend time walking in the country and going out for meals together. So far – so good. He’s a nice man.
Judith and Michael

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Dear Diary

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Diaries are a great way to get noticed on the site, have a look at what’s been going on in the world of You’ve Pulled last week.

Christina Says:
“It’s a tradition in our family to go and get the tree together and then spend the evening dressing the tree to the sound of Christmas music, carols and drinking mulled wine. Oh how I’m looking forward to Christmas!”

Sarah Says:
“I think that it’s best to have some clear and close up photos to show people exactly what you look like. I am a ‘what you see is what you get’ sort of woman, but am wondering whether my latest photo is a bit too honest. I look a bit pale without any makeup, but don’t wear much anyway. I would appreciate any feedback…”

Debbie Says:
“I’d describe myself as a fairly successful, confident, hard-working gal with a dry sense of humour and a pragmatic head on my shoulders… Here’s me having promised myself not to advertise, going on like a washer woman! Have a great day, whatever you have been doing!”

Jane Says:
“I’m onto a second date – same fellow. Let’s just say our first date wasn’t altogether a match made in heaven, although I admit that even though we seemingly had opposing views on everything, it was surprisingly refreshing to agree to disagree. He requested my company again, how could I possibly decline the opportunity to get the last word in?!”

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