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Dating

Is It Love Or Lust?

When you’re having fun chatting to friendly and flirty new friends, on the mobile dating site You’vePulled, it’s super easy to get caught up in the excitement of making instant connections.
Once you ‘click’ with someone you fancy you may be surprised by how quickly your interactions progress online. Sending a cheeky wink, engaging in flirtatious banter and reciprocal personal emails, and making first date plans can take no time at all!
Whilst you’re thrilled at the prospect of hooking up with the hot guy or girl that you’re into in a big way, you may not have considered what’s driving the connection.
Is it genuine romantic feelings (that could blossom into love) that you’re experiencing? Or is it lust for NSA carnal pleasure and gratification?

What’s On Your Mind?

Because love and lust activate similar neural pathways in the brain, it can be difficult to discern which state you’re in. For dating success, it’s vital that you’re honest with yourself about what you’re looking for, in terms of an emotional connection, intimacy and sex.
If you’re chatting with new people on You’vePulled to fill a void and to expand your social life, you may be quite happy to keep communication strictly platonic and online.
If you’re craving passion and a NSA rendezvous with a sexy stranger, dating exclusively and falling in love is probably the last thing that you plan to do.
However, if you long for companionship that grows naturally over time and you’re interested in exploring the dating scene, love is likely to be your primary focus, when you’re checking out the member profiles on You’vePulled.
Having an open-minded approach allows you to explore multiple options, and to decide what you want to do with them. If you don’t want to gain a reputation for being a player, it’s always best to take your time before you dive into any type of romantic or sexually charged experience with someone new. Let the other person know what you’re hoping for from the connection, and where you draw the line.

It’s Purely Lust

Lust is an intense attraction and a desire to get to know someone sexually. When you’re exchanging flirty messages with lots of hot singles, on a safe, secure and discreet dating platform, it’s easy to get carried away and to have lustful thoughts. As your hormones are on fire, you may not be thinking with your brain, and you could make hasty decisions that you later regret.
If you’re looking for casual connections, and plenty of steamy sex, you’re probably lost in lust.
You’re likely to:
• Love bomb the object of your affection
• Feel intensely driven to send explicit messages
• Want to exchange naughty photos
• Dream about tearing your POI’s clothes off
• Desire to hook up on a date that promises sexual gratification
For you, it’s probably unlikely that you will want the sexy fling to turn into something more.

It Could Be Love

Love is a complex emotion that can involve friendship, attraction, passion, chemistry, lust, and a whole lot more. You can fall for someone at first sight, or take forever to realise that they’re the One for you.
You can also love someone you’re not sexually attracted to, and be sexually compatible with someone for whom you have no love feelings. And you can be deeply head over heels or completely infatuated.
Genuine love is something that creeps up on you, when you least expect it. When you feel like your world has been transformed by your POI, it’s probably love that you’re sensing. When this happens you want to spend very moment with this person, lashing attention on them. During the attraction phase, you feel energised and can easily go without eating or sleeping. As the bond deepens, you form a loving attachment that involves affection, trust, and acceptance of each other.

It’s love when:
• Every thought you have involves your POI
• You want to be close to them all the time.
• Butterflies dance in your stomach
• You’re not sleeping or eating well

Instead of trying to define the connection that you’re establishing with someone that you’re chatting to on You’vePulled, relax and enjoy the experience. There’s no rush to give what you’re feeling a label, and to put it in a ‘love’ or ‘lust’ box. Allow things to unfold naturally and see what develops. You could find that the states of love and lust fluctuate before you’re ready to give it all you’ve got. Enjoying the flirting experience should help you identify which of the two intimacy options most appeals to you.

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Phone Chat

Top Tips For Super Hot Phone Sex

Blonde girl laying on her front on the bed, propped up on her elbows talking on the phoneWith the current climate as it is, some of us are having to find more interesting ways to get intimate.
Phone sex is a great way to connect with your partner even though you’re not in the same room.

Here are some of our top tips to get you started so you can still be intimate, whilst staying safe.

Check they’re up for it.

You can’t just start talking dirty if they’re not ready for it. They might not be in the mood or cooking or eating their dinner! Pick a decent time when you’re both likely to have time to enjoy it, check that they’re in the mood and you’re good to go.

Start with some foreplay.

You can’t just start with the ‘main event’, that’s too much too soon. You need to build it up slowly and start from the beginning. It should be a gradual process in that you both work towards the climax together.

Relive a sexy memory.

If there’s one time you really enjoyed, remind them of it. Go through it step by step, nice and slowly and focus on the details you recall. It’ll be a boost for both of you to remember a time you thoroughly appreciated each other’s company and bodies.

Give roleplay a go.

If you’ve never tried it, roleplay phone sex can be a great way to spice things up a bit and make things interesting.
Always wanted to get it on with the secretary? Always wanted a hot doctor to give you a seeing to? It’s a great opportunity to give new things a try in the slightly less awkward situation of a phone call.

Divulge one of your fantasies.

This is a great time to let your partner know there’s something you’ve always wanted to try. It’s safe and only imaginary so it’s a great time to put it into practice to see if you both might enjoy it. If it doesn’t work, you can quickly move on to something else.

Don’t worry, there are people on our hot chat line right now so you can give these a go!

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Mobile Dating Phone Chat

Socialise From Home With You’ve Pulled!

Although you can’t actually go on dates to socialise at the moment, you can still chat to singles from all over the UK with You’ve Pulled!

Our great service means you can chat on the phone or via messages on your mobile – whichever you prefer!

Our phone chat service is set up so you have a personal voice mailbox which you can record a personalised greeting for. You can then swap voice messages with other members and even have live 1-2-1 chats where you can both dial in at the same time.

If messaging is more your thing, our great mobile dating is completely free to join and set up your profile. Once you have done this you can see profiles of other people and get chatting to them right on your mobile!

So there’s no reason to be bored whilst stuck at home, get chatting and socialise!

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Dating Mobile Dating Phone Chat

Chat With Singles With You’ve Pulled!

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There are many ways to meet singles with You’ve Pulled, try one of them today!

Text Chat
You’ve Pulled brings you a great text chat service for singles in the UK. It’s a fast and easy to use SMS mobile contact, dating and chat service that you can enjoy direct on your mobile. Once you have signed up we start sending you matching profiles of people within your area. Text dating has opened up a whole new world for singles who want to contact, chat and flirt with like-minded people. In no time at all you’ll make new friends and find matches.

Just text the word PULL to 89398 – We’ll then send you a text asking your age plus the age of the people you want to chat with, along with some additional information such as your post code. At this stage all messages are free. Once you get started, there is a minimum charge of £1.50 for 5 texts sent and received. Standard network charges apply.

Phone Chat
You’ve Pulled brings you the chance to chat and meet singles from all around the UK on your phone on the UK’s largest and best chatline service. Our service runs 24 hours a day all year long and costs are from only 13p per minute plus your phone company’s access charge.
Remember if you’re calling us from your mobile to always use our shortcode as it’s just 25p per minute with NO hidden extras!

Give us a call and you’ll find hundreds of people chatting right now from all over the UK. The best thing about our service is we DO NOT USE OPERATORS so whoever you talk to you can be guaranteed that they are real and genuine – just like you. It’s the perfect place to indulge in some casual chat, phone fun, flirting and dating on the line with like-minded single girls and guys from all parts of the country.

With live 1-2-1 chat, 100% genuine callers, a cheaper credit card option, and the opportunity to record your own introduction, it’s a great way to get to know local singles.

 

Mobile Dating

Mobile dating with You’ve Pulled couldn’t be more fun. Simply join for free and start dating and meeting up with some of our lovely singles from all over the UK.

Once you’ve joined we have some great features designed to get you that all important first date – join for free on your mobile and start dating with singles near you now. There is so much to see and do on You’ve Pulled that the only way to really enjoy it is by signing up now.

Unlike other dating sites, we can’t guarantee you’ll find love but you’ll have fun trying on You’ve Pulled!