Here are some of our top tips to get you started so you can still be intimate, whilst staying safe.
Check they’re up for it.
You can’t just start talking dirty if they’re not ready for it. They might not be in the mood or cooking or eating their dinner! Pick a decent time when you’re both likely to have time to enjoy it, check that they’re in the mood and you’re good to go.
Start with some foreplay.
You can’t just start with the ‘main event’, that’s too much too soon. You need to build it up slowly and start from the beginning. It should be a gradual process in that you both work towards the climax together.
Relive a sexy memory.
If there’s one time you really enjoyed, remind them of it. Go through it step by step, nice and slowly and focus on the details you recall. It’ll be a boost for both of you to remember a time you thoroughly appreciated each other’s company and bodies.
Give roleplay a go.
If you’ve never tried it, roleplay phone sex can be a great way to spice things up a bit and make things interesting.
Always wanted to get it on with the secretary? Always wanted a hot doctor to give you a seeing to? It’s a great opportunity to give new things a try in the slightly less awkward situation of a phone call.
Divulge one of your fantasies.
This is a great time to let your partner know there’s something you’ve always wanted to try. It’s safe and only imaginary so it’s a great time to put it into practice to see if you both might enjoy it. If it doesn’t work, you can quickly move on to something else.
Don’t worry, there are people on our hot chat line right now so you can give these a go!