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How To Be A 1st Class Date

Happy Dating coupleConnecting with thousands of people, just like you, is fun and free to do on our easy to use You’vePulled mobile dating site. Once you’ve messaged, texted, flirted, and phone chatted with a sexy single that you have a crush on, you’ll obviously want to arrange a date.

On a hot first date, the impression that you make should definitely be memorable and enticing, if you want to be in with a chance of progressing to date number 2.

Follow our practical tips, to instantly upgrade your dating style, from average to 1st class…

Set An Intention

While you’re grooming and getting ready to finally meet your POI, on a first date, it really helps to think about how you would like the encounter to pan out.

Visualise the two of you relaxing and enjoying each other’s company, with conversation that flows effortlessly and naturally. Set the intention to be present and attentive, and to enjoy a fun and memorable experience. Trust that the outcome of the date is highly favourable.

Be Flirtatious

Body language plays a huge part in how another person perceives you. Greet your date with a smile and a friendly approach. There will be plenty of time for flirtatious play, as you build a rapport and establish a connection.

Pay attention to your date’s body language, and mirror it discreetly. Smile and laugh when they do, and use eye contact to make an intense nonverbal statement. Lean in slightly to let your date know that you’re interested. If they respond with a gentle, playful touch on your arm, it’s a sign that they’re interested in you too!

Be Interested & Interesting

The more interested you appear in your date, the more interested in you they will be. Talk about a variety of date-friendly topics, and use humour to make your date feel relaxed and at ease. Engage them in conversation that is enthralling and entertaining. If you know a subject/topic well, it’s fine to share your knowledge. But avoid being boastful, and be mindful that you don’t dominate the entire conversation.

When listening to your date talk about their interests, pay attention and ask thoughtful questions that demonstrate that you’re interested in what they have to say.

Show Off Good Manners

While appearance and attitude certainly go a long way towards impressing and influencing your date’s opinion of you, good manners are equally important.

First off, ensure that you practice good personal hygiene and grooming habits. It’s essential that you’re respectful at all times. Avoid fiddling with your clothes or hair, or using exaggerated hand gestures when you’re conversing. Talking with your mouth full, picking your nose, and being rude and crude, are unacceptable and instant turn-offs.

Old-school chivalry, like holding a door open for your date, walking on the outside of the pavement, and standing up when a woman stands, are still widely considered to be charming habits that create a lasting, and positive, first impression.

Give Sincere Compliments

Women love to feel good about their appearance. Paying your date sincere compliments about the way she looks, or the way she acts, will make her feel special. Telling her that she has an intelligent mind and good conversation skills will earn you double brownie points!

Be Genuine

The best and most effective way of making a great first impression, and creating a connection with someone that you want to get to know, is to simply be yourself. Be friendly and approachable, and be prepared to let your guard down a little. Just be you, and let your personality and charm shine through so that they dazzle and impress your date.

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5 Chat Topics To Avoid On A First Date

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Before you embark on meeting up with the sexy stranger you’ve been flirting with and chatting to on the UK’s busiest phone chat line, it’s highly recommended that you consider your potential chat topics. What you chat about on a first date can greatly influence the perception of you that the other person gets, and lead to dating success or failure.

You’ll naturally want to impress your date with your personality, sense of humour, and communication skills. While it’s definitely a good idea to have a repertoire of chat topics, to ensure that the conversation is relaxed and flowing, there are some hot topics that are best avoided…

  1. Dating & Romance Failures

You’ve been busy chatting, texting and flirting with someone who caught your eye on Chat2Date’s instant and totally anonymous 24/7 chat line, and now you’re keen to get to know this person better. Exploring common ground and shared experiences is usually where most people start, when trying to build rapport and a connection with someone they like.

As you’ve met on a flirt and date chat line, it makes sense to talk about each other’s past romantic experiences. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with briefly mentioning previous dates who’ve been on, provided that it’s not an endless list. Going into detail and describing past first date disasters, and your impressive ability to pick losers, should also be avoided. Your date also doesn’t want to hear the horror stories and dysfunctional dramas about how crazy your ex was. Save the complaining for conversations with your friends.

A first date is a prime opportunity to get to know someone new without having to dredge up your entire relationship history. Focus instead on discussing your ambitions in life, and your bucket list.

  1. Money

Talking about money is superficial and can make people feel instantly uncomfortable and awkward. Money talk can give the impression that you’re financially motivated (not a good way), or label you a gold digger. If someone’s solvency status is important to you, check out your date’s clothes and grooming habits for hints and clues of their wealth.

First date banter should be light and fun, so swap a serious subject for a topic that makes you smile and laugh. Talk about your favourite comedy shows and movies, and share tales of funny experiences you’d had that will make your date laugh out loud.

  1. Controversial Stuff

There’s no quicker way to spoil the mood on a first date than by bringing up controversial matters like religion and politics. Everyone has unique beliefs and personal values, but a first date is not the occasion to explore these. To avoid having a heated debate, swerve these topics – unless you have a day job as a member of the clergy or a politician, and you have a juicy piece of hot gossip to share.

If you love controversy, talk about subjects that you know really well, and your unusual hobbies. Your date will find it fascinating learning all about something they’ve never experienced.

  1. Sex

If you’re been flirting outrageously on the UK’s busiest phone chat line, there’s a high probability that your banter has had sexual undertones. When you met in person for the first time though, it’s best to skip talking about sex. Talking about it increases the possibility of ending up in bed and having a one-night stand. If you’re keen on this person, that spur-of-the-moment experience may scupper your chances of a second date.

If you don’t want your date to run a mile, don’t chat about your promiscuous past, one-night-conquests and long list of sexual fantasies. Reserve the flirtation for your eye contact and body language, and talk about art, music, travel, and other things you are equally passionate about instead.

  1. You

Yes, it’s great that you’re awesome, super confident and have high self-esteem, but endlessly talking about yourself will make your date feel that you don’t really have time for anyone else. Listening to someone’s self-adulation quickly kills the conversation, and extinguishes any chemistry or spark that may have been igniting.

Create an air of mystery about yourself, and increase your date’s interest in you, by turning the tables and showing undivided attention. Make them feel special by asking thoughtful questions, and actively listening. By the end of your date, they will have a higher opinion of you than if you had babbled on for hours and made the conversation all about you.

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Why Should You Try Our Phone Chat Line?

Brunette woman leaning against a wall smiling whilst chatting on the phoneIt’s 2021 and there are hundreds of different dating apps and sites and ways to chat to other singles, so why should you try a phone chat line?

Chatting on the phone can be a fantastic way to get to know someone.

You can tell a lot about a person through their voice, so by starting your relationship journey on the phone, you’re more likely to be able to tell if you’re compatible, than if you can see a couple of photos and a short paragraph on a screen.

It’s a lot easier to build a connection when you can have a proper phone chat conversation, than just sending loads of written messages as you can get to know the person much better by letting conversation flow.

Our phone chat line is also a great way of seeing someone’s personality and sense of humour.

This is a really important aspect of getting to know someone, whether it’s a friendship or romantic relationship, as you need to be compatible enough to get along easily. By using our great phone chat line, you can tell this pretty quickly, so you won’t be wasting your time messaging someone for weeks, only to learn you aren’t compatible at all.

You’ve Pulled’s long established phone chat line is one of the best around. With hundreds of singles chatting every day, join in the fun on your phone now – you’ve got nothing to lose!

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Valentine’s Day Date Ideas During Lockdown

Closeup of couple making heart shape with handsWith Valentine’s Day approaching, most of us have gotten used to being stuck indoors a lot of the time as mandated lockdowns have become the norm, face to face dating is currently a thing of the past, and whether you’re single or in a relationship, dating has now taken on a completely different form.

Virtual dating has become the new normal, with more people than ever using online dating and phone or text chat lines to find The One.

The first date, however, has become completely different. Rather than meeting for a coffee, going out to dinner, or visiting the cinema, couples are having to become more creative in their dating life, with technology being the focus.

So, with that in mind, how can you begin or continue dating someone without being able to meet up? Below we have listed a few ideas that might give you some inspiration.

 

Have a romantic candlelit dinner.

Yes, you can still do this! With the wonders of video calls and things like Zoom (which is more private as you don’t have to reveal your number), you can cook simultaneously, or order a takeaway and sit and eat together. Romance doesn’t need to be dead!

 

Play games together.

Not being able to be in the same room, doesn’t mean things have to be boring. There are plenty of online-based games you can play together. Most games consoles have online capabilities so you can play together, or alternatively there are things like Geoguessr, where you can play against each other and see who can work out where you are in the world first.

 

Watch a movie or TV show you both love.

Seeing as the cinemas are closed, you can make your own one at home. Schedule a time, choose what to watch and watch it at the same time. You could either video call at the same time so you can talk about it, or message each other whilst watching or at the end to see what you both thought about it. Everyone is watching more TV and movies than ever before, but there must be something left you can watch together!

 

Write each other letters.

If you’d like technology to take a back seat for a while, you could write to each other. It’s a great way to get your feelings out and you could also send each other little gifts if you’d like.

It’s much more personal than reading a typed message on a screen, whether you’re either getting to know each other, or have known each other ages, it gives a much more personal touch to communication.

 

Chat on the phone.

Most people get so used to texting or messaging on multiple apps, they don’t seem to connect with each other through the phone anymore.

Schedule a time when you’re both free, to just sit and chat to each other. It’s a great change to give each other your full attention.

If you’ve not met yet, it’s a great way to see if you’ve got chemistry, or if you’ve been together a while, it gives you a chance to really connect with each other if you feel like you might have lost that whilst being apart for so long.

 

If you’ve yet to meet someone you’d like to date this Valentine’s Day, get yourself on You’ve Pulled and get chatting to singles from all over the UK on our great phone chat or mobile dating services today!

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Lockdown Dating: Our Top 5 Tips For Dating On A Chatline

Woman with dark hair sitting on a sofa texting on her phoneChatline dating has stood the test of time. Even with the introduction of online dating and dating apps, phone chat dating is still hugely popular.

With COVID-19 restrictions and lockdown still in place, what better way to get to know someone than on the phone!

Whether you’ve used a chat line before, or you’re a complete newbie and lockdown is making you look for different ways to date, our top 5 tips will help get conversations flowing.

  1. Make sure your voice mailbox introduction is going to catch their attention. You want to sound interesting and get them asking questions.
  2. Chatting on the phone is a great way to tell if you’ve got a connection with someone as you can tell a lot from just their voice. Make sure you feel comfortable with them before you take things any further.
  3. Chat about things that you love and ask about their passions. It’s a great way to connect and you’ll be showing the best of you whilst hearing the best of them
  4. Don’t give out your personal information. Make sure you keep yourself safe whilst chatting on our chat line.
  5. Have fun! Dating isn’t supposed to be a chore, it should be enjoyable. Just be yourself and make the most of your time chatting to someone. This will help you find someone special

To put these into practice, get chatting with singles from all over the UK with You’ve Pulled!

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Date Ideas Whilst Social Distancing

Dating hasn’t been the most important thing on people’s minds the last few months, but there’s no need to stop dating entirely!

It’s still possible to have dates, they’re just going to be a little different to normal due to social distancing.

We’ve listed a few date ideas for you to try, below.

Video call date

Whether it’s your first date or your twenty first, video chat is a great way to have a proper conversation. You’ll be able to see each other, either for the first time or just because you haven’t seen each other in a while. Some apps also have built in games you can play to add a bit of extra fun.

Watch a movie together

Find a movie or a TV series that you both want to see and watch it together. You’ll have someone to discuss it with during or after which is always fun to do as you unpick it and see different things. You can get some snacks and snuggle up on the sofa to make it like a “date night”.

Take a walk together

As restrictions are being gradually lifted, we can meet friends outside. So, whilst keeping a 2m distance, you could go for a walk in your local park or along the seafront if you’re on the coast. It’ll give you a chance to meet up if you never have, or see each other if it’s been a long time.

Cook together

Plan what you’re both going to have for dinner and cook it ‘together’. You can give each other tips or one could teach the other their recipe. You could video chat at the same time to see what each other is doing. You could even eat it together and make it romantic!

Have a ‘naughty’ phone call!

We are all missing the intimacy that social distancing is forcing upon us, but there is a way you can keep a little bit alive – phone sex! Whether you’ve done it loads of times or never tried it before, now is a great time to do it. Just make sure you’re both in the mood!

If you’re currently single and want to give these things a try, there are loads of single guys and girls from all over the UK chatting on You’ve Pulled so join today!

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Top Tips For Super Hot Phone Sex

Blonde girl laying on her front on the bed, propped up on her elbows talking on the phoneWith the current climate as it is, some of us are having to find more interesting ways to get intimate.
Phone sex is a great way to connect with your partner even though you’re not in the same room.

Here are some of our top tips to get you started so you can still be intimate, whilst staying safe.

Check they’re up for it.

You can’t just start talking dirty if they’re not ready for it. They might not be in the mood or cooking or eating their dinner! Pick a decent time when you’re both likely to have time to enjoy it, check that they’re in the mood and you’re good to go.

Start with some foreplay.

You can’t just start with the ‘main event’, that’s too much too soon. You need to build it up slowly and start from the beginning. It should be a gradual process in that you both work towards the climax together.

Relive a sexy memory.

If there’s one time you really enjoyed, remind them of it. Go through it step by step, nice and slowly and focus on the details you recall. It’ll be a boost for both of you to remember a time you thoroughly appreciated each other’s company and bodies.

Give roleplay a go.

If you’ve never tried it, roleplay phone sex can be a great way to spice things up a bit and make things interesting.
Always wanted to get it on with the secretary? Always wanted a hot doctor to give you a seeing to? It’s a great opportunity to give new things a try in the slightly less awkward situation of a phone call.

Divulge one of your fantasies.

This is a great time to let your partner know there’s something you’ve always wanted to try. It’s safe and only imaginary so it’s a great time to put it into practice to see if you both might enjoy it. If it doesn’t work, you can quickly move on to something else.

Don’t worry, there are people on our hot chat line right now so you can give these a go!

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Socialise From Home With You’ve Pulled!

Although you can’t actually go on dates to socialise at the moment, you can still chat to singles from all over the UK with You’ve Pulled!

Our great service means you can chat on the phone or via messages on your mobile – whichever you prefer!

Our phone chat service is set up so you have a personal voice mailbox which you can record a personalised greeting for. You can then swap voice messages with other members and even have live 1-2-1 chats where you can both dial in at the same time.

If messaging is more your thing, our great mobile dating is completely free to join and set up your profile. Once you have done this you can see profiles of other people and get chatting to them right on your mobile!

So there’s no reason to be bored whilst stuck at home, get chatting and socialise!

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How Talking On The Phone Benefits Your Relationship

Regardless of whether you’ve been together ages or you’ve just started dating, talking on the phone is a key part of maintaining a healthy relationship.

Misinterpretation is one of the main issues with communicating via messages as there is no tone of voice and you are unable to fully interpret what someone may mean purely by reading text on a screen.

Talking on the phone means you can hear the person’s mood and their tone of voice and how they’re coming across.

This can help avoid any misunderstandings which may lead to disagreements and arguments.

We know how convenient it is to text each other but with the possibility of spelling mistakes and abbreviations, you may not be able to convey your thoughts as well as you would on the phone. Sometimes it’s quicker to just ring someone and explain and then you’re also going to get immediate answers rather than hanging around waiting.

Speaking on the phone regularly can strengthen your connection with each other.

Whether you’re in a new relationship or have been together for a long time.

Being able to hear each other’s voices is much more personal and intimate than reading words on a screen.

It also means you’re more likely to be giving them your full attention because replying to a message means you can leave your phone and walk away – which you’re not likely to do when talking on the phone.

Getting to know someone at the beginning of a relationship is easier when you have chats on the phone.

You’re able to get to know someone’s personality and get a much better idea of what they’re like rather than by messages alone.

Something that can be a big issue for some people is waiting for a reply when you’re messaging someone.

Some people see it as a continuous conversation and expect replies as though you’re face to face, but other people don’t and may then reply to a message but walk away from their phone so the other people is left waiting for a response. When talking on the phone this is unlikely to happen because there would be some awkward silences if someone didn’t answer a question!

Whether you’ve just started dating or have been married for years, make sure you chat to each other on the phone and keep that connection.

If you’re currently single, you can chat to other singles on You’ve Pulled’s brilliant chat line. Start the relationship as you mean to go on! Get chatting to singles from all over the UK on your phone today.